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	<title>Comments on: Awkward silences</title>
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		<title>By: Jimmy</title>
		<link>http://nowebsite.co.uk/blog/2008/05/awkward-silences/#comment-53114</link>
		<author>Jimmy</author>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 May 2008 04:14:16 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>The kind of person who'd use a real-life breakup to make some cheap points about the philosophical nature of relationships, rather than offer comfort to a friend, doesnt need to be addressed, or replied to. Hope things are going ok- see you in a few weeks with a bottle of duty-free vodka.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The kind of person who&#8217;d use a real-life breakup to make some cheap points about the philosophical nature of relationships, rather than offer comfort to a friend, doesnt need to be addressed, or replied to. Hope things are going ok- see you in a few weeks with a bottle of duty-free vodka.</p>
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		<title>By: Scatmania &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Reasons To Tick The &#8220;It&#8217;s Complicated&#8221; Box</title>
		<link>http://nowebsite.co.uk/blog/2008/05/awkward-silences/#comment-53138</link>
		<author>Scatmania &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Reasons To Tick The &#8220;It&#8217;s Complicated&#8221; Box</author>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 May 2008 09:39:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://nowebsite.co.uk/blog/2008/05/awkward-silences/#comment-53138</guid>
					<description>[...] you&#8217;re reading Abnib in chronological order, you&#8217;re already aware that Claire and JTA split up a little while ago. I don&#8217;t think I&#8217;ve ever seen so [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] you&#8217;re reading Abnib in chronological order, you&#8217;re already aware that Claire and JTA split up a little while ago. I don&#8217;t think I&#8217;ve ever seen so [&#8230;]</p>
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		<title>By: Strokeyadam</title>
		<link>http://nowebsite.co.uk/blog/2008/05/awkward-silences/#comment-53143</link>
		<author>Strokeyadam</author>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 May 2008 11:00:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://nowebsite.co.uk/blog/2008/05/awkward-silences/#comment-53143</guid>
					<description>I hope you really are dealing with it as well as you describe - it can't be easy.
I'm sure the fact that it's halved the cost of Valentine's day in September will be little concolation

I'm sure no one that reads your blog would kick you while you're down by criticising how youchoose to live your life.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I hope you really are dealing with it as well as you describe - it can&#8217;t be easy.<br />
I&#8217;m sure the fact that it&#8217;s halved the cost of Valentine&#8217;s day in September will be little concolation</p>
<p>I&#8217;m sure no one that reads your blog would kick you while you&#8217;re down by criticising how youchoose to live your life.</p>
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		<title>By: feebeestar</title>
		<link>http://nowebsite.co.uk/blog/2008/05/awkward-silences/#comment-53152</link>
		<author>feebeestar</author>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 May 2008 12:35:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://nowebsite.co.uk/blog/2008/05/awkward-silences/#comment-53152</guid>
					<description>i am sorry to hear about you and JTA, if i had had time to come to aber with Andy i would have made time to talk to you about it if you had wanted to.

i am glad it doesn't change your opinion of being non-mono, i have always felt that things made more sense with you and Dan saying you were in an open relationship when it was apparent you were, as opposed to before hand. hope that makes sense, i just read it back and confused myself.

anyway, i hope you and JTA both are ok with the whole situation now and can remain good friends, not that i see reason why not.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i am sorry to hear about you and JTA, if i had had time to come to aber with Andy i would have made time to talk to you about it if you had wanted to.</p>
<p>i am glad it doesn&#8217;t change your opinion of being non-mono, i have always felt that things made more sense with you and Dan saying you were in an open relationship when it was apparent you were, as opposed to before hand. hope that makes sense, i just read it back and confused myself.</p>
<p>anyway, i hope you and JTA both are ok with the whole situation now and can remain good friends, not that i see reason why not.</p>
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		<title>By: Scatman Dan</title>
		<link>http://nowebsite.co.uk/blog/2008/05/awkward-silences/#comment-53158</link>
		<author>Scatman Dan</author>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 May 2008 13:39:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://nowebsite.co.uk/blog/2008/05/awkward-silences/#comment-53158</guid>
					<description>Just a thought, Strokey Adam, but isn't Valentine's Day in Febuary?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just a thought, Strokey Adam, but isn&#8217;t Valentine&#8217;s Day in Febuary?</p>
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		<title>By: Strokeyadam</title>
		<link>http://nowebsite.co.uk/blog/2008/05/awkward-silences/#comment-53165</link>
		<author>Strokeyadam</author>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 May 2008 14:43:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://nowebsite.co.uk/blog/2008/05/awkward-silences/#comment-53165</guid>
					<description>Yes it is. And I can't think of a witty reason that i might have put september so i'll have to go with stupidity
Although, according to wikipedia there is a jewish festival of love in late august. That's nearly September.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes it is. And I can&#8217;t think of a witty reason that i might have put september so i&#8217;ll have to go with stupidity<br />
Although, according to wikipedia there is a jewish festival of love in late august. That&#8217;s nearly September.</p>
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		<title>By: Scatman Dan</title>
		<link>http://nowebsite.co.uk/blog/2008/05/awkward-silences/#comment-53186</link>
		<author>Scatman Dan</author>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 May 2008 18:11:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://nowebsite.co.uk/blog/2008/05/awkward-silences/#comment-53186</guid>
					<description>feebeestar++
Wonderful comment.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>feebeestar++<br />
Wonderful comment.</p>
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		<title>By: Alec</title>
		<link>http://nowebsite.co.uk/blog/2008/05/awkward-silences/#comment-53251</link>
		<author>Alec</author>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 May 2008 08:13:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://nowebsite.co.uk/blog/2008/05/awkward-silences/#comment-53251</guid>
					<description>I've only ever said 'i told you so' once, and that was about Richie being a cunt. There's no 'i told you so' here because it's not relevant; you just decided that this relationship wasn't right.

You needent be quite so defensive; we're not monsters! 

I hope everyone's coping ok. I've always been of the opinion that if there's significant doubt about a relationship then you should stop it asap. I'm sure you'll all be bouncing along again in no time.

If any of you need to chat you know where we all are.

Hugs,


A</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve only ever said &#8216;i told you so&#8217; once, and that was about Richie being a cunt. There&#8217;s no &#8216;i told you so&#8217; here because it&#8217;s not relevant; you just decided that this relationship wasn&#8217;t right.</p>
<p>You needent be quite so defensive; we&#8217;re not monsters! </p>
<p>I hope everyone&#8217;s coping ok. I&#8217;ve always been of the opinion that if there&#8217;s significant doubt about a relationship then you should stop it asap. I&#8217;m sure you&#8217;ll all be bouncing along again in no time.</p>
<p>If any of you need to chat you know where we all are.</p>
<p>Hugs,</p>
<p>A</p>
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		<title>By: Liz H</title>
		<link>http://nowebsite.co.uk/blog/2008/05/awkward-silences/#comment-53340</link>
		<author>Liz H</author>
		<pubDate>Sat, 31 May 2008 11:46:04 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>I hope your ok Claire - love you!

HUGS HUGS HUGS!!!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I hope your ok Claire - love you!</p>
<p>HUGS HUGS HUGS!!!!!</p>
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		<title>By: scleip</title>
		<link>http://nowebsite.co.uk/blog/2008/05/awkward-silences/#comment-53513</link>
		<author>scleip</author>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Jun 2008 09:16:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://nowebsite.co.uk/blog/2008/05/awkward-silences/#comment-53513</guid>
					<description>I broke up with simon five weeks and two days ago, we are both in a terribly messy mess and that is the result of the breakup of a "traditional" relationship.  You all appear to be handling this so very well but I'm sure there are pangs that catch you as unaware as they do me. Good thoughts and all that craic floating your way.
Love Jen.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I broke up with simon five weeks and two days ago, we are both in a terribly messy mess and that is the result of the breakup of a &#8220;traditional&#8221; relationship.  You all appear to be handling this so very well but I&#8217;m sure there are pangs that catch you as unaware as they do me. Good thoughts and all that craic floating your way.<br />
Love Jen.</p>
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